What Does God Want For My Life?


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What Does God Want For My Life?

Now that I'm (ahem) middle age, or what I like to call, "seasoned"...

I can affirm from years of counseling and pastoring that the #1 thing that people want to talk about is that tough decision in front of them.

It's the shoulds...

should I stay or should I go?

should I say yes or no?

It's also the whys..

why did this hard thing happen to me (or a loved one)?

why God, do you feel far away?

And it's always:

GOD, WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR MY LIFE?

This week on the podcast and in person at Ward Church, I shared a practical, pull-up-to-the-table teaching about understanding the foundations of God's voice in our life as well as a few ways to consider both general and specific direction that He provides. Along the way, I promised to provide you with the chart I put together that gives you the bottom line of what it looks like to move in the way of the spirit v. the way of the world:

Here's the sermon and podcast links if you'd like to join me in remembering exactly what God wants for all of us--and a few guiding thoughts for that specific burden on your heart right now.

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You can also listen to the abbreviated version on How to Study the Bible this week!

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Here's to seeking God together in 2025!

Much love,

Nicole


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